Boudoir photography has become increasingly popular in recent years, but with its growing popularity comes a slew of misconceptions and myths. As a boudoir photographer, I've encountered numerous misconceptions that often hold women back from experiencing the empowering and confidence-boosting benefits of boudoir photography. In this blog, I'll delve deeper into debunking common myths and separating fact from fiction, exploring the true essence of boudoir photography.

Myth #1: Boudoir photography is only for young, thin, and perfect-looking women.

This myth is perhaps the most damaging, as it excludes a vast majority of women who don't fit this narrow definition of beauty. Fact is, boudoir photography is for every woman, regardless of age, size, shape, or ability. It's about celebrating individuality and beauty in all forms. Women of all ages, sizes, and backgrounds can benefit from boudoir photography, and it's essential to recognize and honor this diversity.

Myth #2: You need to be a "sexy" person to do boudoir photography.

This myth assumes that boudoir photography is only for women who exude sex appeal, which is far from the truth. Boudoir photography is not about being "sexy"; it's about embracing your sensuality and confidence. It's for women who want to feel empowered, beautiful, and comfortable in their own skin. Sensuality is not limited to a specific body type or personality; it's an inherent quality that every woman possesses.

Myth #3: Boudoir photography is only for romantic gifts or to please a partner.

While boudoir photography can be a wonderful gift for a loved one, it's primarily about self-love and self-celebration. Many women do it solely for themselves, as a way to mark a milestone, celebrate their body, or simply to feel confident and beautiful. Boudoir photography is not about seeking external validation; it's about embracing your own worth and beauty.

Myth #4: You'll feel uncomfortable or embarrassed during the shoot.

I will do everything possible to create a safe, comfortable, and relaxing environment, making it easy for you to feel at ease. You'll be guided through poses and encouraged to express yourself authentically, without feeling pressured or uncomfortable. In fact, most women report feeling empowered and liberated during and after the shoot.  Feel free to read their opinions here.

Myth #5: Boudoir photography is explicit or pornographic.

This myth likely stems from misconceptions about the nature of boudoir photography. Fact is, boudoir photography is tasteful, artistic, and elegant. It's about capturing beauty, intimacy, and sensuality, not explicit content. Boudoir photography is often compared to fine art photography, with a focus on capturing the beauty and essence of the human form.  I demonstrate this in my gallery.

Myth #6: You need to have a lot of experience with photography or modeling.

No experience is necessary! Boudoir photography is about capturing your authentic self, not about being a professional model. Women from all walks of life can participate, and I will personally guide you through the process, ensuring you feel comfortable and confident.

Myth #7: Boudoir photography is expensive and inaccessible.

While high-end boudoir photography can be an investment, I offer affordable packages and options to make it accessible to a broader range of women. Additionally, consider the value of investing in yourself and your self-confidence – it's priceless.

In conclusion, boudoir photography is not just about capturing beautiful images; it's about empowering women to embrace their beauty, sensuality, and confidence. By debunking these myths, we can encourage more women to experience the transformative power of boudoir photography. It's time to shatter the misconceptions and celebrate the true essence of boudoir photography: self-love, confidence, and empowerment.

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Are you considering a boudoir photography session? Look no further! A boudoir photoshoot is a unique and empowering experience that can help you unleash your inner seductress and confidence. As a woman, you deserve to feel beautiful, sexy, and powerful, and a boudoir session can help you achieve just that.

Our boudoir photography studio specializes in creating a safe, intimate, and luxurious environment for women to express themselves and their sensuality. Our experienced boudoir photographers will guide you through the entire process, from posing and styling to capturing your most flattering angles.

A boudoir photoshoot is not just about taking pictures; it's an experience that can help you:

- Boost your self-confidence and self-esteem
- Celebrate your body and beauty
- Embrace your sensuality and femininity
- Create intimate and romantic gifts for your partner or loved one
- Step out of your comfort zone and try something new and exciting

Our boudoir photography packages are designed to cater to every woman's needs, whether you're looking for a classic and elegant or bold and sassy look. We offer a range of services, including hair and makeup styling, wardrobe consultation, and personalized photo albums and prints.

So why should you consider a boudoir photography session? Not only will you receive stunning and high-quality photographs that will make you feel like a queen, but you'll also experience a transformative and empowering journey that will leave you feeling confident, beautiful, and sexy.

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Brandi invited one of her close friends to tag along, which I always encourage women to do to ensure they feel safe and comfortable.  Plus, Julie was able to record some behind-the-scenes footage to use in the video.​

I will say that Brandi is one of the sweetest women you will ever meet and the confidence she displayed during our session was abundant.  There were times when she was already moving into a pose before I could give direction and those poses were FIRE!  

So, if you are on the fence about doing a boudoir session, please watch the video for a quick sample of what you would experience while working with me.  You will be pampered by a licensed HMUA and it doesn't matter if you do not know how to stand or lie down.  I will gladly demonstrate what to do so we can create some outstanding photos for your albums.

Life is like a set of dominos.  We make a decision, which affects the events of tomorrow, which in turn affect future events.  Who would have known that by beginning to learn a second language two years ago would make such a huge impact on my life today.

November 2021 I decided to learn Portuguese because I felt there was a very strong possibility I would like to retire there.  I began with an online program called Talk The Streets, which you can preview snippets by searching for Liz Sharma on Youtube.  Six months later I finished that course and earned the coveted "Sou Pro" coffee mug.

Wanting to become more fluent, I began weekly sessions with online tutors and discovered an online language certificate program with Murray State University.  The program would take me a year to complete and at times it was like drinking from a firehose, but I earned my certificate in November 2023.

By pure coincidence I was asked to assist another photographer who was working with a young Brazilian model.  Of course, I jumped at the opportunity so I could practice what little Portuguese I knew.  The model and I clicked and a few months later we worked together for a poolside photo session.  Miriely is a runway model and competed in the Miss Brazil-USA 2023, finishing in second place.  After the competition, she asked me to photograph her in her dress, Miss Brazil sash and tiara.  The photo session was fantastic and we walked away with too many beautiful photos to count.

Unknown to me at the time, Miriely spoke with some folks who work with her as a runway model and also runs a Brazilian/American fashion magazine.  She suggested the magazine contact me and ask me to work with them.  Out of the blue I received a message on Instgram inviting me to a studio in Charleston to photograph more models to showcase their clothing in the next issue of the New Time Closet magazine.

I was invited to be a photographer at a runway show tonight and I spoke briefly with the magazine's CEO and owner (entirely in Portuguese, btw) and I have now found someplace to advertise my boudoir photography business.  On top of that, I spoke with another two Brazilians and asked them to work with me as hair/make-up artists for my boudoir clients.  

I know I would not be where I am today without stepping out of my comfort zone and learning how to speak Portuguese.  Even though I do not think I will be able to retire full-time in the country, I still plan to spend extended periods of time over there, perhaps 90 days at a time.  And I still speak five times a week with Portuguese/Brazilian friends and tutors each week to improve my skills.  I am nowhere near fluent, but I am hoping one day I will be able to baffle a native Lisbonite as to what nationality I am.  

How does all this apply to you?  Take my story as encouragement and motivation to step out of your comfort zone and attempt something you still have doubts about your success.  Do not give up.  Take each challenge one at a time and soon you will achieve whatever it is you dream about.